Thursday, June 30, 2011

孟母搬家的故事 The Moving Story of Mencius' Mother

Don't you think Mencius' mother is a real FengShui master? Since children's education is traditionally the number one issue of priority in a Chinese family, it's not uncommon to find parents quitting their old jobs and trying to find new jobs in a new place in order to send their children to a better school. It's a  hard decision for a modern family. It's much harder for a single mother in the past, whose only means of making a living was to do laundry and sewing for others.  Mencius' father died when Mencius was only three.

This story has such an influence on Chinese parents nowadays that the condos within the best school
district are speculated to be the most expensive in the market, say 3 times higher in price than the condos of the similar size and quality. A 3-bedroom condo can cost as much as $800000(RMB¥5 million) in Hangzhou, the city I'm from.

Mencius (372BC~289BC) is considered to be the most important confucian after Confucius. He inherited the Confucius' theory,  and developed it greatly, and was called "Sub- Saint" ,as Confucius was regarded as the Saint.

孟子是中国历史上影响最大的思想家之一。 他很小的时候,父亲就去世了,孟子是他的母亲带大的。孟子的家附近是一块墓地, 他经常去那儿玩,和邻居的小孩一起学着大人跪拜、哭嚎的样子。孟子的母亲看见了就说: “这地方对小孩不好。”所以她就把家搬到别的地方去了。新家在一个市场旁边,孟子常常去市场玩, 学商人做生意,杀猪卖肉的样子。他的母亲知道了皱皱眉头说: “这地方对小孩也不好。” 就把家搬到了一个学校旁边。孟子看到学校里的学生都念书, 也跟着念书。 孟子的母亲满意地笑着说: "这才是小孩子应该住的地方。“ 所以, 孟子的母亲跟孟子就在那儿住下来了。孟子后来成了一个很有学问的人。

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Mencius is one of the most influential philosophers in the Chinese history. When he was very young, his father passed away. Mencius was brought up by his mother. There was a cemetery near their house. Mencius  often went there to play. He and children in the neighborhood copied the adults' way of worshipping and crying. When his mother saw this, she said:"this place is not good to kids." Hence, she moved their home to another place. Their new home is close to a market, where Mencius often went to play. He copied the way the sellers doing their business, butchering pigs and selling the pork.  When his mother learned about this,  she said again: " This place is also no good for kids." So she moved to the side of a school. When Mencius saw the students reading at the school, he also read following their example. His mother smiled with satisfaction and said: " now this is  the place where kids should live." Therefore, Mencius and his mother stayed there.  Later Mencius became a very knowledgeable man.

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